1. a truly sincere, mild and almost amiable yet slightly insolent or contemptuous rude action or remark.
2. a guileless pseudo-compassionate and nearly encouraging affront.
verb1. to treat or speak to with the warmest and most bewildering degradation.
e.g. "You're one of my favorite people. I love that I feel such a kinship between us. It makes me feel so connected to you. Like, I used to also really struggle with compulsive overeating and be terribly painfully awkward in social situations. No I mean like, you're my favorite."